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April 27, 2016
Summer To-do List

MGA PWEDE BUHATON KARONG SUMMER
1. Travel with Bae, babe, baby, hon, wifey, hubby, ug unsa pa na inyong tawagan, sulita mintras kamo pa kay basin last summer na ron ninyo
2. Go to the beach and build a sand castle. Maayo man ka ana dba, mo build, pagkahuman GUB-ON ra, dayon biyaan ra.
3. Go camping, perfect time nga magsoul searching, dili intawn mangita’g booking. Please lang. Init kaayo ang panahon, bisan wala kay buhaton, panington ra ka.
4. Make new friends, dayon ma fall ka, magka summer love. Pero hinumdumi, mas importante ang aircon kaysa relasyon karong panahona. so ayaw nalang dayona.
5. Magfood trip nga ikaw ra isa or kuyog imong barkada. FOODever is always better than Forever, especially this Summer.
6. Di mogawas sa kwarto the whole day coz it’s too hot to go out, so mag pretend nga natulog pero diay to nagsigeg hilak kay nakahinumdum sa convos ug pictures ninyo sa imong ex with matching background maoy music
7. Stargazing total anad naman ka nga kutob ras tutok ug tan-aw pirme sa mga butang nga dili nimo kayang maabot.
8. Watch og porn. Nothing new, kutob raman jud kas tan-aw.
9. Laag with your squad, nya libakon tanang mag-uyab nga masugatan, nya pinahonghong ug padungdungog og "Walay Forever"
10. Maligo mga 10 times.
11. Summer Playlist on replay. Ang kanta ra intawn ang ibalik ha, imong Ex ayaw na!
12. Facebook, Instagram and Twitter for the whole day. Then dili nimo malikayan og stalk si EX, nya makit-an nimo nga naa siyay ka‪#‎RelationshipGoal‬ this summer, so magsuicidal thought ka maong mokaon kag usa ka kutsarang asukal para mawala imong pagka bitter.
13. Kay na intriga man ka kinsa ang kuyog sa imong EX, so imo pong gi stalk og apil. Duha ray padulngan ana, either mo-ingon kas imong self nga "mas gwapa/gwapo paman ko ani" or magka assassination thoughts ka ala How To Get Away with Murder.
14. Watch balik og porn. or GOT marathon, mura raman pod nag porn ang ubang scenes ug para maka relate ka's mga mag post about GOT.
15. Have a family reunion. Nya makakita imong relatives nimo, malain ka kay ingnon ka og “Nitambok lagi ka Dong/Dai?”, “Minyo na ka dong/dai?”, “Asa man imong uyab? Wala lagi nimo dad-a.”. Ang imong tubag ‪#‎Nganga‬
16. Learn something new. Like arts and crafts, you need a divertion para dali ka makamove on. Or learn nalang ka og witchcraft kay mas dali ang gayuma ug poison.
17. Go fishing. Wala ka pul-i sa imong uyab nga HIPON? Pangita og Fish napod oi.
18. Go trekking or mountain climbing. Para ang imong sakit sa dughan ma ilisan og sakit sa kalawasan. Anad man pod ka'g ‪#‎katkat‬
19. Maninda og ice or halo-halo, for sure halin kaayo. Nya magmaoy dayon ka kay Maypang ice nahalin, ikaw? Maypang halo-halo, special, ikaw?
20. Imong eshare or etag ni nga post sa tao nga bitter sa summer.
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April 16, 2016
4 Ways to Get Closure
Kasagaran sa mga relasyon karon, magsugod sa Pick-Up Line, matapos sa Hugot Line. Samot na kung bad break up, samot na kung walay Closure. For sure magbaha jud ang ampalaya posts all over your newsfeed.

The first part of my Closure blog was all about expressing your gratitude, releasing the pain, and accepting the fact that things didn’t and won’t workout for the two of you anymore; and all youwanted is a closure. Or maybe to some, a Closure is just the end of book 1 and the beginning of your book 2, that is if you’re still planning to give the person a 2nd chance. Either way, our common ground is we’re looking for that Closure. Kay para nato, Closure maoy makatubag sa atong mga pangutana, sa atong mga “Ngano?”, nganong mibiya ka’g kalit?, nganong wala naka nagparamdam?, nganong ing-ana kadali ko nimo gipulihan?, nganong nabuhat to nimo? Nganong giblock/unfriend dayon ko nimo’s Facebook without further explaining your side?

So this second part will be all about “How to get the Closure that we want”, either ihatag niya or pwede ikaw mismo ang mohatag sa imong self.

So, how to get Closure?

1. MAKE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX - kana kung ang sinugdan or ang foundation sa inyong relationship kay friends mo kaayo before mo nagka-uyab. Then naay dakung chance nga magka friends ra mo’g balik. Just like me and some of my Exs. Friendship is probably one of the best ways to get a closure from your EX. Pero kung inyong pagka-uyab dinalian, like dili strong ang foundation, lisod na sya mahitabo. Sa kana nga case, an ex does not make a true friend, especially immediately after the breakup and especially he/she was never your close friend at the start, because s/he used to be just one of your random friends nya nagkadevelopay mo, nagka char-char, nya nagkakamo na dayon.
So, as much as possible, try to build a healthy friendship instead of a toxic relationship. 

2. PASAYLOA IMONG EX - despite unsay rason nganong nagkabuwag mo, pasayloa sya. Dili tungod deserving sya, but because you deserve peace of mind. Yes, it might be difficult nga mapsaylo sya samot na kung ing-ana ka grabe iyang gibuhat nimo, wala lang siguro ka na inform nga animal imong na uyab, dili tao; so forgive him/her. So tangtanga sa imong pride kadali, your pride to say sorry, and your pride to accept apology bisan wala pa sya nangayo’g sorry nimo. Kung mahimo na nimo, you can say nga mature na ka, your bad experience with him/her made you a better person and you begin to think of the brighter side of things.

3. LET IT GO - dili na sya kutob ra’s kanta ni Elsa, sa imong kinabuhi gamita. Letting go is probably ang pinaklisod pero mao poy pinaka effective way to get closure. Don’t consume yourself sa bati nga nahitabo ninyo, aside nga mobati imong nawng kung mohilak ug magmaoy ka, lingering in your past relationship won’t help you. It will just kill you inside. So, try to focus sa mga positive sides sa imong kinabuhi, your friends, your family, your pet, career, you can travel, write a blog, or better write a song like Adele and Taylor Swift, kana, makakwarta pa ka. Isubmit dayon na nimo’s VisPop, basin mosikat na next to Haha Hasula.

4. PAGBALIK MO - Although advocate ko’s “Thou Shall Not Make Balik with Your Ex” kay na tagam nako, but probably, pwede sya para nimo, para ninyo. I know maka relate ta’s usag-usa most of the time, however, lahi-lahi man atong personal experiences, kay mag depende sa tao ug sadagan sa inyong relasyon, kay usahay, if nahigugma gyud ta’s usa ka tao, the time that we were apart, makes us realize nga love jud diay to nimo ang person. So, possible nga ang pagbalik is a closure, too.

There is no pain-free way to break up with someone. Kitang tanan, at some point in our life, would experience a heartbreak and a heartache. Mao sigurong gitudloan ta og “Close-Open” pagkabata nato dili lang tungod para sa atong kamot, para pod siguro sa atong kasing-kasing. If we learn to “Open” our hearts, we also need to learn how to “Close” it. Till my next blog. Thank you.

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April 16, 2016
I don't want you back. I just need closure.

Galisod bitaw ko kung unsaon ni nako pagsugod.
Sama kalisod katong nag-ila-ila pa ta.
Sama kalisod sa pagpanghid nako ni mama/papa nga manglaag ta. 
Sama kalisod sa pag message nako nimo’g una aron mangutana kung “kumusta na ka?”.
Lisod kaayo ‘tong tanan, pero ngano sayon-sayon raman ko nimong gibiyaan?
Ing-ana pod ba kalisod moingon og “Sorry”, “Goodbye”, ug "Salamat sa tanan”? Nga sa kalit ikaw nahanaw, ug di na makit-an?
Saktong CLOSURE raman unta akong gipangayo, ultimo kana dili ko kahangyo?

Even though makaingon ta nga naka move on ug naka let go nata, ug di na nato kailangan ang closure, maabot ra jud ta sa point nga makahunahuna og balik sa tanan. Kay usahay, we don’t really move on man jud bah, we just distract ourselves to get things going. We try to be okay bisan dili ing-ana kasayon, to be left hanging, with so many questions left unanswered. S/he asked you to take care of your heart, but s/he turned out breaking yours instead.

Usahay, especially kung kanang ikaw ra usa ug wala kay gibuhat, makapangutana nalang kas imong kaugalingon kung tinuod ba to’ng inyoha. Kung tinud-anay pod ba to’ng iyaha.

PARA SA MGA NANGITAG CLOSURE. 
Bisan og ang iyang “sorry” dili mahimong enough to alter/correct his/her mistakes and even though it won’t fix you, maka ingon ko nga CLOSURE is a start.

CLOSURE RA AKONG GIPANGITA.
Ex, Ayaw kaguol.
Nagbuwag man ta nga walay klaro,
Usa ra akong klarohon nimo.
I’m not asking you to come back.
Natagam nako. So #NeverAgain.
Gusto ra unta ko makabalo kung asa ko nasayop ug nagkulang.
Gibusog man unta tikas gugma, pero wala ko na inform nga patay-gutom man diay ka.
Gusto ko makadungog sa imong “Pasayloa ko”
Dugay nako ganahan mo chat, mo text ug makigstorya nimo.

DAGHAN KONG ANGAY ESULTI NIMO.
I wanted to say sorry. Sorry for being too much and not enough at the same time.
Sorry kung akong gipugos nga magbalik ta.

I wanted to say I have forgiven you. For giving up on me, on us, even if all I ever did was fight for you, for us. Gipasaylo na tika sa imong pagpamakak, apil napod imong pagkamanyak, for cheating on me, for taking me for granted. BUT I STILL NEED TO KNOW THE REASONS WHY. 
AND LASTLY, thank you. Thank you for letting me think I was in love. That it was all real. Wala ko gamahay kay daghan kong nakat-onan.

I’m not expecting for a response from you. I just hope that maybe one day, you’ll clear this up for me. Maybe ikaw mismo ang unang mo reach out nako. But for now, I’ll leave you with this.

Kung asa man ka karon, ug kung nag-unsa man ka karon, just know that I’m broken, still broken, and looking for that one missing piece, OUR CLOSURE.
-- to be continued next week

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April 01, 2016
9 Signs nga gi-ilad ra ka niya

Unsay kwenta sa April Fools’ Day, kung taga-adlaw ilaron naka pirme?
So, here are 9 possible signs nga gi-ilad ra kas imong uyab.

1. Dili Mananghid - Kung mangutana ka kung asa sya, iyang tubag kay “Basta”, usahay maglagot pa. Usahay pod anha pa sya mananghid kung naa na sya sa venue mismo, irrelevant na kay wala nakay mahimo.

2. Murag Single Kung Magpost sa Facebook - Taudtaod namo’ng uyab pero iyang profile pic kay iyang pet, igsoon, siya, basta never pa kamong duha. Kung mo upload sya og photo nga naa ka kay kuyog pod ang mga barkada. #Groufie lang pirme ang inyong peg. Kung imo pod syang e-tag sa pic ninyong duha, dili automatic mapost sa iyang timeline kay naka filter ang Timeline for review.

3. UnliBi (Unlimited Alibis) - di mahutdan og rason nga dili sya pwede, dili sya kakuyog. Kesyo di sugtan sa mama, or sa papa kay mas stricto, naa pa sya’s gihimo, naglain iyang lawas, basta di mahutdan. Duha lang jud na ka rason nganong dili pwede, it’s either NOT FEELING WELL, or NOT TELLING WELL, and most of the time, it’s the latter.

4. Sobra ka Paasa - Mura’g kandidato, e-spoil usa ka sa mga saad, nya, nig maabot na ang adlaw nga gisabotan, back to reason # 3, UnliBi. Same routine most of the time, Promise - Asa - Reason (Repeat). Ayaw anang tao nga sigeg Promise, Promises are meant to be broken. Look for a person who can give you ASSURANCE, kay SURE pa ka, naa pakay INSURANCE, insurance if something gets broken.

5. Daghan og cellphone, or sim - maybe ang uban naay valid reason ngano, but, magduda kang ilad ra anag tanan kung sa kadaghan niyag cellphone ug sim, dugay gihapon kaayo sya ka reply nimo.

6. Moody - wala man unta sya dug-a, pero grabe ka moody. Mokalit lang og paramdam, mokalt lang og kawala, basta, tanan kalit-kalit, dili naka kasabot usahay. But if almost every night na sya dili magparamdam nimo or daghan syang alibi especially 6pm onwards, pagduda na.

7. Uno Palabra - kung kasagaran response niya nimo thru chat or text kay 1 word lang, like K, mao ba, haha, basta one word, pagduda na pod, he or she no longer finds you interesting, ngita nanag laing lingaw or kalingaw.

8. Makig Cool-off - ang tao nga bugnaw na ganig tinagdan, nya makig cool off pa jud, mangahi na, sa lain na magitag painit. Once mag Cool off namo, you’re good as single na.

9. Kalimtanon na - kalimot na sya’s inyong normal routine, mga dates or special days, mabantayan nimo nga moseryoso lag og kalit nya lawm kaayog gihunahuna, makalimot usahay sa inyong tawganay, he/she calls you by name unconsciously or worst, laing name/endearment.

Kung maka uyab kag ing-ani, ayaw intawn dayon BUWAGI, obserbahi ug pa imbistigahi usa, nya ug sayop ni, ayaw intawn pod ko pasanginli. These are just hypothetical signs, uban based on my personal experiences.
Maybe sayop ni, pero better na nga magmatngon ug mangandam ta. Ang mga taong ing-ani, dili na mo ila’g April Fools’ day, wa uroy na sila gaba-i. So, mga Dzae ug mga Dzong, kung kabalo nakang gi-ilad ka, ayaw na tawn pag buta-buta, bungol-bungol, manhid-manhid, UG ayaw na intawn baliki, dili intawn ka makadawat og Loyalty Award sa imong pagka martir. And remember, the best weapon to tell if someone is fooling you around is your instinct and guts. Mga Dzae ug Dzong, don’t settle for less, you deserve better! You deserve to be happy!

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