Ang Pag Move On
(Warning: Medyo Taas)
* Thanks to Cattski's "Usa Ka Libo Ug Usa Ka Panamilit" for being my official background music while making this blog.
(Warning: Medyo Taas)
* Thanks to Cattski's "Usa Ka Libo Ug Usa Ka Panamilit" for being my official background music while making this blog.
MOVE ON - personally, dili gyud ko motoo ana kay for me, we don’t really move on, ato lang edivert atong attention to some other things or to other people. So, it’s more of Diversion rather than Moving on ang atong gibuhat.
How can you move on sa usa ka tao who has caused you too much pain and heartache? Sometimes I wonder nganong gitawag na og heartache/heartbreak when it feels like your whole being ang gasakit. Physical pain is even better kay imnan ra nimog tambal, maayo na ka. Pero ang heartbreak? Bisag imnan pa nimog usa ka set nga Red Horse (as if mo inom ko), dili gihapon mawagtang. Maoyan pa nimos taman ug hilakan, wala gihapon. Nya sayon ra kaayo moingnon imong barkada og “Move On na oi”, pero unsaon man gyud ba ang pag move on? Mao ng pangutanaha nga nagtangag og dakong ganti.
I received a dozen of personal messages asking me to write a blog about Moving On, but how can I do that nga mismo ako dugay or wala pa naka move on? What I did instead kay naghimog blog about “Nganong Lisod MagMove On”. Ang pag Move On murag Color Switch, one wrong move and you’re back to square one. Very tricky kaayo kay naka move on na unta kag gamay, but there will always be something or a situation nga makapahinumdum nimo niya, or worst, siya mismo ang magparamdam nimo’g kalit. Wa uroy sya kilati. So balik napod ka’s sugod sa pagmove on, nya same thing napod ang mahitabo, until kapoyon nalang ka, makigbalik na lang ka niya or magpa-abot nga makigbalik sya, maghandom nga matarong or mausab sya.
Ingon nila, ang 1st step sa pag move on kay ACCEPTANCE, which I also agree. Kailangan nimo e-accept nimo nga wala na. Wala nay meaning ang tanan nga imong makit-an nga makapahinumdum nimo niya. Dawaton nimo nga wala nakay balikan ug dapat wala na syay balikan. Dawaton nimo nga kaya nimo mabuhi or maglipay nga wala sya. Keep away and disconnect yourself sa tanang butang nga makapahinumdum nimo nya, like his/her social media accounts and STOP STALKING. To heal a wound you need to stop scratching it. Delete his/her contact numbers, too para sa panahon nga maguol or magmaoy ka, dili naka katext/message niya. And when that time happens, surround yourself with your friends ug ingna sila to avoid talking about him/her and just have fun.
And while you’re doing this, fill your heart with the Lord. Remember, he’s the Great Healer. So, ipagawas imong gibati ngadto Niya, lahat ng sama ng loob, tanang bati and negative thoughts and emotions, so all that will be left are the positive ones. He will not just mend your broken heart, he will replace it with a new and better one.
And to wrap this up, my advice is, AYAW'G MOVE ON, you'll get stuck in the same place and cycle simply because you're just and only moving ON. Instead, MOVE UP. Up from where you are now, from where that Jerk has left you. Be the best version of yourself , to find yourself, to get to know yourself, to work on yourself, to confront yourself. Doing what you love and finding your purpose, creating and building a career, be financially stable and training yourself to be independent. Perfecting the ‘I,’ before you start expecting everything out of others.
How can you move on sa usa ka tao who has caused you too much pain and heartache? Sometimes I wonder nganong gitawag na og heartache/heartbreak when it feels like your whole being ang gasakit. Physical pain is even better kay imnan ra nimog tambal, maayo na ka. Pero ang heartbreak? Bisag imnan pa nimog usa ka set nga Red Horse (as if mo inom ko), dili gihapon mawagtang. Maoyan pa nimos taman ug hilakan, wala gihapon. Nya sayon ra kaayo moingnon imong barkada og “Move On na oi”, pero unsaon man gyud ba ang pag move on? Mao ng pangutanaha nga nagtangag og dakong ganti.
I received a dozen of personal messages asking me to write a blog about Moving On, but how can I do that nga mismo ako dugay or wala pa naka move on? What I did instead kay naghimog blog about “Nganong Lisod MagMove On”. Ang pag Move On murag Color Switch, one wrong move and you’re back to square one. Very tricky kaayo kay naka move on na unta kag gamay, but there will always be something or a situation nga makapahinumdum nimo niya, or worst, siya mismo ang magparamdam nimo’g kalit. Wa uroy sya kilati. So balik napod ka’s sugod sa pagmove on, nya same thing napod ang mahitabo, until kapoyon nalang ka, makigbalik na lang ka niya or magpa-abot nga makigbalik sya, maghandom nga matarong or mausab sya.
Ingon nila, ang 1st step sa pag move on kay ACCEPTANCE, which I also agree. Kailangan nimo e-accept nimo nga wala na. Wala nay meaning ang tanan nga imong makit-an nga makapahinumdum nimo niya. Dawaton nimo nga wala nakay balikan ug dapat wala na syay balikan. Dawaton nimo nga kaya nimo mabuhi or maglipay nga wala sya. Keep away and disconnect yourself sa tanang butang nga makapahinumdum nimo nya, like his/her social media accounts and STOP STALKING. To heal a wound you need to stop scratching it. Delete his/her contact numbers, too para sa panahon nga maguol or magmaoy ka, dili naka katext/message niya. And when that time happens, surround yourself with your friends ug ingna sila to avoid talking about him/her and just have fun.
And while you’re doing this, fill your heart with the Lord. Remember, he’s the Great Healer. So, ipagawas imong gibati ngadto Niya, lahat ng sama ng loob, tanang bati and negative thoughts and emotions, so all that will be left are the positive ones. He will not just mend your broken heart, he will replace it with a new and better one.
And to wrap this up, my advice is, AYAW'G MOVE ON, you'll get stuck in the same place and cycle simply because you're just and only moving ON. Instead, MOVE UP. Up from where you are now, from where that Jerk has left you. Be the best version of yourself , to find yourself, to get to know yourself, to work on yourself, to confront yourself. Doing what you love and finding your purpose, creating and building a career, be financially stable and training yourself to be independent. Perfecting the ‘I,’ before you start expecting everything out of others.
Remember, don’t let the person who didn’t love you keep you away from the one who will.
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